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Another
Christmas come and gone, all that worry, all that preparation,
spending, wrapping, posting, buying and ''organizing''.............all
done and dusted for another year. And I'm happy to report I've survived
this mammoth, annual, stress-buster more or less intact. Everything (and I do mean EVERYTHING) was completed in my house by the morning of Christmas Eve. Two of my three daughters and ALL of my grandchildren were visiting and eating lunch in my house that day, the other daughter had to work which was a bit of a shame. After lunch I went back with my eldest daughter and her daughter to spend Christmas with them. Back at her house we, that is the granddaughter and I, made mince pies, did some last minute wrapping, made orange and clove ball table decorations and made our authentic yule log out of cotton wool, old Christmas cards, glitter and a piece of driftwood. After our evening meal off we all went to the town square to participate in Carol Singing and Mulled Wine, accompanied by the local brass band, and all very civilized. Unfortunately, I forgot to take my camera so the only photo I have is a very poor quality snap taken with my 'phone. Better than nothing I guess.
Christmas day started at about 4 am. This is when my granddaughter woke up for the first time and asked me for the time, she then woke up more or less every half hour until 6.30 when I allowed her to put the light on and start chatting, at which point she woke her parents and Christmas day began in earnest. It passed in a blur of food, wine, movies and the sound of wrapping paper being torn apart with great gusto. By the evening exhaustion set in and off to bed we went, grateful to sink into oblivion. Thankfully every one slept quite late on Boxing day and after a late, leisurely breakfast (did I really need MORE food??) my bags were packed and I was taken home..............so.............here I am.

Post Christmas, back in my own little house, alone, mulling over the events of the last couple of days and thinking about what changes I need to make to my life over the coming year.
The obvious and usual are top of the list.......''I really do need to lose weight and get more exercise'', nothing new there, I think that every year. But I suppose this year I should make more of an effort than I have in the past, my health really deserves it, needs it even. But on a more positive note; I'm going to try to do a lot more drawing and painting. At the moment I only seem to find time to do it in class but what I should be doing, is drawing and painting most days if not every day. What I would like, my own little dream, is to have enough work of sufficient quality to stage a small exhibition. This is something I am going to work toward.
Which brings me back to here.............my Multiply page and you..... my friends. This has all been such a wonderful experience for me this year, I have loved being online, getting involved in every thing, and getting to know every one. I think if I am serious about drawing a bit more and maybe taking an exercise class I shall have less time here. Less online time should just mean posting a bit less but still keeping in touch with people. At least thats they way I hope it pans out because I really have enjoyed every thing here over the last year and don't intend to lose it.

Oh...........another change, I am going back to restricting my posts to contacts only, at least for a while. This is due to the only blot on my happy Christmas experience. I've discovered a person who I don't much want contact with has been 'hanging' about my site, this person has set up their own multiply site in order to leave little messages for me, not quite sure why, but the easiest way of dealing with this is to keep my posts for network only. SO.............for a while at least that is what I'm going to do. I'm sure I've said this before in a similar situation but.........if you can't access anything just let me know and I'll add you as a contact.

There are of course the little glitches, or ''blips'' with multiply, odd things do happen and seem to be happening to more people more often, so my sincere New Year wish is for Multiply to sort out all of its little problems. At the moment I think I am one of the people who are receiving email alerts from ''Multiply friends'' offering dubious links. And of course I still can't use my media locker, that has been out of bounds to me for ages. Then there are the countless people who suddenly find they are unable to post or who double post every thing, or who can't comment..............etc etc etc.............the list goes on. BUT; despite all the little so called glitches I love the multiply experience and hope to spend next year building on it.
Well...............guess thats it for my post-Christmas Musings, guess the only thing left for me is to wish each and every one of you a very, very
HAPPY NEW YEAR
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acousticeagle wrote on Dec 29, '08
I
guess the best thing to do is totally ignore the person that's doing
some passive/aggressive stalking of you. Totally ignore them. You can't
change their behaviour, even though the thought of them trying to 'get
at' you is so irritating. If you accept to yourself that there's nothing
you can do to change 'them', then what you need to do is reject and
ignore, and when they post immediately delete their comments. You can
block them and then they won't be able to comment at all. Don't feel bad
about this! I've had to do it too. It's part of the beauty of being in a
social network. I've found that most people I've known have been caring
individuals, but then you'll get some needy soul who desires attention
that does not sit well with you, and because this person has 'issues'
they've made you a target. It's sad that they are like this, but one has
to give such a person up to God and move on. You're on the internet to
have fun and enjoy good company, but you don't owe anyone who's trying
to spoil that for you because of their own issues. I think sometimes we
are always going to find people like that, it's just part of being in an
online community.
Actually, Loretta, it's good that you've shared this because I've found that when people speak up about problems, others feel some kindred spirit about it, so keep up the good empathatic word! |
dianahopeless wrote on Dec 28, '08
I'm
so happy to hear your Christmas was a good one. In spite of my fears to
the contrary, mine was a really good one too. I am counting my
blessings Loretta, and I count you as one of them. Looking forward to
the New Year, hope it is a good one for all of us!! ((HUGS))
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aimlessjoys wrote on Dec 27, '08
I''m
thinking post-Christmas, too, & I think your experience sounds
pretty good! As for New Year's resolutions, I don't make those, but
admire those who do. Have Fun & NO GUILT if you're doing your
personal best, that's all that matters! Cheers to the New Year, too!
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forgetmenot525 wrote on Dec 27, '08
:) THANKS, never thought of that so I feel less guilty now :-) LOL
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forgetmenot525 said
Anyway..........I
seem to have broken one of my aspirations for the new year
already........I was going to get on with a little drawing today but
instead I have spent quite a while catching up with people here and
having a look around.............Ahhh well...........tomorrows another
day as they say. ![]()
Psssssst .......its not the new year yet so its ok (wink)
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forgetmenot525 wrote on Dec 27, '08
Hi
everybody and how nice to see you all here...............yep Christmas
was good this year just hope it was good for you folks too. Think my
little cyber-stalker got the message, I left this post open to every one
so that should do the trick. Maybe I should be worried..........not the
first time this has happened to me maybe I attract weirdos!
Anyway..........I seem to have broken one of my aspirations for the new
year already........I was going to get on with a little drawing today
but instead I have spent quite a while catching up with people here and
having a look around.............Ahhh well...........tomorrows another
day as they say.
Happy New year to every one.............enjoy the rest of your holidays |
forgetmenot525 wrote on Dec 27, '08
Thanks
Frank................ohhhh I like your idea of doing it all in
January..........maybe even buy the cards and presents in the January
sales...LOL..........but somehow it just wouldn't be the same.
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kentuckydeb wrote on Dec 27, '08
HI
I LOVED YOUR CHRISTMAS DAY STORY WHAT FUN. THE PICTURES ARE GREAT AND
SHAME ABOUT UR LITTLE STALKER. WISHING YOU A GREAT NEW YEAR. I HOPE TO
CONNECT MORE WITH MY FRINDS IN 09 AND YEP LOSE WEIGHT WOULD BE GOOD
ALSO. HAVE A GREAT DAY . DEB
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kvnwheeler wrote on Dec 27, '08
Sounds like a real nice Christmas, glad you had a good time.
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forgetmenot525 said
Another
Christmas come and gone, all that worry, all that preparation,
spending, wrapping, posting, buying and ''organizing''.............all
done and dusted for another year. And I'm happy to report I've survived
this mammoth, annual, stress-buster more or less intact. ![]()
I
don't think that this could be better stated. In fact, next year I may
wait until the New Year to send cards and put that as the inscription. I
am enjoying a weekend of peace and quiet, hope that you are also.
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kathyinozarks wrote on Dec 27, '08
enjoyed
your post Loretta and sounds like your christmas was wonderful. I don't
have problems any more to block people here that are pests and bother
me, or make me feel uncomfortable. I do like to share alot of my posts
to everyone, but the ones on a more personal level I have changed
recently to my network or contacts only as well.
would you like me to start healthy mondays back up? we can focus on exercise and healthier eating more. I started back on the quilt I am making for my cancer fighting friend. I just couldn't get it done before christmas, but am hoping to mail it to him by new years eve. I then promised Larry to get back on my rock shower project-and then when that is finished and the other rocking around the tub area, we can do everything else to the bathroom to get that room done. I am going to do some faux techniues on the wall, and perhaps some stamping of flowers as well. Happy New Year |
starfishred wrote on Dec 27, '08
glad yll went well during the holiday for you-
my new years resolutions haven't been formed yet hehehe but we all need a little more excersice and eat a little less hehehe |
greenwytch wrote on Dec 27, '08
i
need to do better with the weight and excercise (and taking more care
of what i eat!), too. maybe we should make some sort of a collective
effort; safety in numbers, and all of that. your holidays sound
fabulous, ours were, too. HUGS
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brendainmad wrote on Dec 27, '08
I'm
glad you enjoyed your Christmas. I did too and, thank goodness, still
have a few days of holiday left. I've had my page 'network protected'
for a long time and have blocked some. Hopefully that annoying person
will get tired and give up. As I've said before, it's something that I
don't understand. Enjoy the rest of your holiday.
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Psssssst .......its not the new year yet so its ok (wink) 
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